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Acceptance & Commitment Therapy

ACT

Stop fighting your inner experience. Move toward what matters anyway.

Wellness tool — not medical care. In a crisis, call 911 or 988. More resources.

What ACT helps with

  • Accept difficult thoughts and feelings without fighting them
  • Clarify what truly matters to you
  • Take meaningful action toward your values
  • Build psychological flexibility
  • Live a more purposeful life

Try a practice

Defusion: Thank your mind

When a harsh thought shows up ("I'm not good enough"), say internally: "Thank you, mind." You don't have to argue with it or believe it — just notice it as a thought passing through.

Values check

Ask: "If today went exactly the way I wanted, what kind of person would I have been?" Pick one tiny action that points in that direction — and do it.

The passenger on the bus

Imagine you're driving a bus. Difficult thoughts are noisy passengers. You can't kick them off — but you choose where the bus goes. Keep driving toward what matters.

Accept · Choose · Commit

Accept what's here right now. Choose a direction (your values). Commit to one small action. Repeat.